Well…. it’s time again… Time for another post full of my thinks.
I think about friends a lot lately… I think about friendships a lot lately…
I think that’s because I’ve been unfortunate and had a few friendships that have ‘ended’ because life has gotten in the way….
That always makes me sad…. It always reminds me that, no matter how hard we try to hold on to the great things in our lives, sometimes life just has to move on and we have to move and grow and change and let go of the old.
Change is always hard for me…. Hell, even rearranging my furniture is hard for me… But letting go of people that I have grown to trust and count on; that’s hell.
But I guess at every point in life, we need to be able to do that… we need to be able to move on… especially if it’s what the other person wishes for us to do.
Trying to force a friendship to remain intact is pointless unless both parties want it to continue to exist.
To all of those friends whom I have ‘lost’ lately…. Know that I love you. Please know that I am here…. Please know that no matter what….. I’ll always be here for you. It might not be the same as it was before but I’ll always be here for you.